Fragments from imaginary dialogues
“I love Magic the Gathering. For many reasons. The problem is, for me, it has addictive qualities. It’s immensely engaging. When I start playing, I find it hard to stop. I can literally play it all day.
I’ve had several failed attempts to keep it in check in the past. Until now.”
“Isn’t it too early to tell?”
“I’m not basing my conclusion just on the recent successes, but on the system I have in place.
I like to think of Magic as two games in one. The actual game, and the meta-game of keeping it under control and looking for ways to transfer insights and concepts from Magic to the Meta-Game (with capital letters) that is my life – what I call The Beautiful Game [<link; medium read].”
“So meta-game is a higher order game, and Meta-Game (with capital letters) is the highest order game.”
The system is part of the meta-game. Optimizing the system is also part of the meta-game.”
“What does the system look like?”
“It has several components.
How long did I play today?
This is a key aspect. When playing Magic I have a tendency to lose track of time. Moreover, the impulse to play it activates repeatedly throughout the day. By tracking it, I can tell at a glance that I’ve reached the limit for the day.
What is noteworthy?
How do I feel?
This has to do with noticing certain impulses / desires as they arise, and creating space [<link; short read] for decision-making. It also has to do with noticing cognitive biases and the fluctuations of my emotional state.
What’s the best decision? (pre-decision)
Was it the best decision? (post-decision)
Why did I make that decision?
What were the failure-points?
What can I learn from this?
This has to do with decision-analysis, identifying failure-points and behavioral-patterns, troubleshooting and optimizing, and inner exploration.
What are the red-flags?
What will I do when I fail?
This has to do with highlighting and preparing for conditions that are likely to lead to poor decision-making, and creating a protocol for dealing with failure.
What’s the practice?
This is perhaps the most important of all. Having a system in place is useless if you don’t apply it. I noticed I have a tendency to forget, so I have all these written down and I read them right before starting to play.”